The New York Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, gives us insight into the most effective ways to communicate love. He outlines the five languages as Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Acts of Service, and Gift Giving. Chapman asserts that everyone has a primary love language, but not everyone shares the same one. And therein lies the friction in many relationships. One person’s primary language may not match their partners, so they simply don’t communicate their love in the language in which the other can hear it.